Facebook in real life.....!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!





After a month long experience on facebook following conclusion comes out (which is worth sharing with my 'friends'):
You are safe on facebook if you keep this in mind:
"Facebook is a place to meet friends (friends from your real life, with whom you meet in neighborhood, school, college or office)"
AND
You are in great trouble if you think (as all think):
"Facebook is a place to make (new) friends (friends you don't know outside online life)"

As friends in real life trust (trust percentage differs for different friends) each other same should be done here.

Like school, office or any other community place, people don't look for flirting always, you should not do it here.

Like any public place your actions are limited, so do here.

SIMPLE FACT: If you can't do it in real life, you should not do it here. Few examples for this fact:
Example1: If you can't abuse in real life, you should not do it here.
Example2: If you can't call any of your classmate/colleagues with their nick names in real life, you should not do it here.
Example3: If you can't tell your teacher "Sir I am ignoring you, because what you think I am, I am not like that and what you done with me was wrong. And I am not here to prove you anything." in real life, you should not do it here.
Example4: If you can't show your personal/family pictures to your whole class/office, you should not do it here.
Example5: Facebook (or Internet) is a public place, none of your privacy policy can hide your activities, because just like any public place what you do or even see is viewable in public (even you are whispering in your friend's ear, all will notice it).

SUMMARY: Just like you visit any public place like a park, a restaurant, or a party, or school, or office, you are visiting Facebook in same manner. It's a reflection of your social ethics and manners. It's nothing personal.

What you say readers?

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